Sounds very dooms day’ish, but then it sort of reflects where this project is going and let me state for the record – I am not depressed by this, though the following may sound like it.
Anyway, as it is a new year let’s have a brief look back first … In September of 2007 I caught up with Richard Thompson and over a few beers and a bit of reminiscing he persuaded me to start organising a reunion. The deal was that we would both take on the load of hunting folks down and as we found them, the hope would be that each new contact might have details of others.
Unfortunately, apart from three instances, it has become clear that nobody from our year has managed to stay in touch with any others over the intervening years. And lets face it, 29yrs (in my case) is a long time to not have spoken with some of you so that comes as no real surprise.
Equally unfortunate is that I ended up being the only one doing the searching and despite several calls, emails and text messages nothing further has come from Richard. However, using dumb luck in some cases (just how many Mike Davis’s could there be?), online search tools, web 2.0 products like LinkedIn and Facebook I have done reasonably well – I think.
If I were to make the decision today and to be honest I can’t see it changing in the next month, then the decision would have to be that a reunion for our year would not be practical. I have managed to track down just short of 50% of our year group and those numbers don’t make it viable.
I have vague details of another 10 or so folks but nothing that I have been able to confirm – including one where the person simply won’t return a phone call despite my leaving several messages and his mum assuring me it is the right number. Even were we to find the extra 10, that is still only 66% and again not really a number to be viable. In my mind I set a target of 75% of our year (including the sadly deceased Mark Carnell) but realism sets in and says I won’t achieve that.
That said, I remain optimistic about the project overall and have thoroughly enjoyed re-connecting with each of you. It has been a blast having that first initial chat and finding out the what, where, whys, etc; but I fear that in the most part that 29yrs is too big a gap to bridge to keep it anything more than a casual friendship.
Equally, the task has not been made easy by lack of responses – there are those whom have and will respond and I thank you each and every one, but then there are those who probably justifiably don’t want to bother for whatever reasons including the one very terse “leave me alone” email from Matthew Taylor. On top of all this are those I’ve made contact with but since then have not responded to any emails, calls, etc asking for updates.
So, here we are, the dawn of a new year and a decision looms.
I intend to make a final decision next month and between now and then I will try and get the information on the 10 firmed up as well as trying to make some progress on the remaining numbers that evade my grasp. So again I want to ask you all to have a look at the NOT found list (link on the right from the home page) and dredge your memories for any info you can provide. This could be as obscure as my mum used to get a Christmas card from his mum … in which case, ask your mum for last known contact details, please. Alternatively if you want to take on the task of trying to locate just one person on the not found list then that would be fantastic.
Until next time then …